How to use your body language to attract woman?
Three men enter a bar (no this is not the start of a bad joke) one will get a phone number and the others won’t. Want to know the difference between these men? Why one will experience success and the others failure? It all comes down to body language, and using your body language to attract women. Experts tell us that anywhere from 80% – 90% of all communication is nonverbal. So what does that mean? It means that women, who are especially good at reading body language, use your body language to judge you. So body language is extremely important. Probably more important than most of us realize.
So let me tell you about these men. Man number one walks into the bar. Eyes turn, as they will and others notice him. Now he’s a shy, timid man and this shows. His head is down, his shoulders are slumped and pulled in. He enters, looks up quickly to find an empty table and then drops his head again. He walks, probably quickly to the table. If there are groups of people in his way he seems to almost slink and slide between them. In fact he seems to almost shrink to get past these people. In no way does he allow his space to invade someone else’s. Now he’s sitting at the table, he doesn’t make eye contact with the server, he barely looks up. Every person, but especially every woman in the bar has noticed this. What are they thinking? They are thinking he’s a capital ‘L’ loser. Sorry, guys but women do judge us and judge us harshly. She has completely dismissed him as a possible date or mate. Her attention is now elsewhere with only one other thought, “I really hope he doesn’t approach me.”
Now lets say this guy sees a woman he’s attracted to. Let’s say he even gets up the courage to approach her. So he stands up and starts to walk towards this woman. Again, his head is down, he walks quickly and when he reaches her he glances up for just a moment and then mumbles some kind of greeting. Now most women will be gentle with this guy. But he will be rejected. Why? Because his body language said “I’m weak, I’m timid, I’m a pushover, I’m not mate material.”
Now man number two. How’s he doing? Is he using his body language to attract women or repulse women? He enters, head held high, shoulders back and pauses to look around. He sees every woman as a possible conquest and if his eyes should meet a woman’s he doesn’t hold eye contact instead his eyes start to undress her. She feels this and looks away, uncomfortably. Other women are noticing this. He spots a table or in his case he’ll sit up at the bar. As he starts to walk or I should say strut he forces his space on others. If there are groups in his way, he pushes them aside. He’ll walk between two people talking and if it’s a man and a woman, he’ll likely try to brush his body against her’s as he struts past. His body language is telling women that he’s a bully. He’ll glare at men, challenge them to get in his way. He’ll undress women with his eyes. When he does approach a woman he dominates them. He’ll try to stand over them. He must keep women down. Women know this and just like the previous situation women want no part of this. In fact for a woman it is worse to be approached by this guy than the first. She’ll try every means possible to get away from this guy. But he’s already in her space. His hand is on her shoulder or back. She’s leaning away from him, she’s making excuses. This guys body language screams bully, it screams over compensating. Very quickly everyone woman in the place is telling other women to stay away. He’s trouble. Even the men are avoiding this guy, because they know he’s trouble. No, he is not using his body language to attract women.
Now for Man number three. This is the true Alpha. He walks in and pauses. His gaze sweeps the room. He notices everything. Where groups of people are gathered and where a woman is sitting alone. His head is high, but his chin is not jutting out. His shoulders are back, but comfortably so. As his gaze sweeps the room his eyes may make contact with someone else’s, male or female it doesn’t matter he will smile and move his gaze on. He doesn’t let it linger. There is confidence without challenge. He does not need to challenge anyone. As he walks, he walks slowly. He may chose a table or the bar. Either one is fine with him. He’ll take his time, making eye contact, smiling and moving on. He takes up space, but does not have to force his space on others. Simply because he has been noticed in a positive way, people will move out of his way as he walks through the bar. Not out of fear, but out of respect. His body language has already earned him respect and attraction. Now the women are noticing him and their attention is staying focused on him. He is confident without being arrogant. Once he’s chosen a woman to approach he’ll let her know, through body language that he is going to approach her so it’s no surprise to her. He has noticed everything about her and comments on things like her eye color or her dress. He sits with her, he does not need to tower over her in order to be noticed. He puts himself on her level as an equal to her. Now she’s interested and once interested he can now start moving into her space.
To use body language to attract a woman you must first be noticed in the right way. You start communicating with the woman the moment you enter the place. You do not dominate, but you are in control. You are confident. You’ve put yourself in a place of equal to her and now she is at ease with you. Now you can use your body language to turn the heat up. Move into her space, but do so very casually. If she makes a joke laugh and touch the back of her hand. If the two decide to move to a table he will let his hand rest lightly on her lower back, gently guiding her through the crowds and at the same time raising the heat of their encounter. He will now sit beside her, allowing his thigh to touch hers.
Notice how all of his actions are natural. They come from a place of self confidence and attraction to her. He uses his body language to attract women the moment he walks into the bar to the moment he walks out with her. Actually, he is so in tune with the power of body language and is such a natural that he uses body language in everything he does, not just to attract women.
Which man do you want to be? How to use body language to attract women can be learned and practiced and mastered.
If you want to know how it ended. Guy number one went home alone, guy number two got bounced from the bar and guy number three drove the lady home with her number in his phone and plans for the next day.
The biggest hurdle that men always seem to have in their way when it comes to completely satisfying their woman is knowing how to communicate with her on an emotional level. Most guys have been told all of their lives to ‘put a lid’ on their emotions and act like a real man, so we have and we’ve become disconnected to anything that involves feelings. Meanwhile, women have been encouraged all of their lives to be connected to their feelings and that expressing them is healthy. So, from childhood, girl and boy children are set up to be incompatible partners when it comes to having an emotionally sound relationship. Men can and do overcome this hurdle every day. It only takes patience and practice. Remember, not everything our parents taught us was sound advice. Times have changed and so have men and women. So here is where I come in; to try to undo this programming for guys and to teach them how to read a woman’s mood and how to make her emotionally happy.
The very first thing you need to do is to tell your girlfriend or wife that you’re not comfortable with showing your emotions or dealing with women’s emotions but that you are a good student and you want to learn how. Women love a man that is interested enough in her that he will try to remove any barrier in his way to make it a happy, healthy relationship. In my own experience, women can be the best teachers and will work just as hard as you do to reach this goal.
Remember that for women, most communication is on a silent level. It’s all about reading a person’s body language to intuit and evaluate a person’s emotional barometer. A good example is that a woman is sitting at a table and her female friend comes to sit down with her. Right away the friend is showing concern and asks her what’s wrong? This is the subtle way women communicate. She has shown that she knows that there is a problem, is concerned about it, therefore her friend will be open to conversing about it. Now, take that same scenario and her boyfriend sits down. He will go on about his day and as an afterthought ask how hers was all the while wondering why his girlfriend is so silent today. Needless to say, she will likely say something like, ‘fine’ and leave it at that. She won’t understand how her boyfriend can’t see that she is upset and will be resentful of him for not paying attention to her. In the first scenario, the female friend paid attention to her body language and knew something was bothering her friend right away. In the second scenario, the boyfriend, who knows nothing about the subtle communication of body language and how women communicate through it, assumes everything is fine and treats the date as business as usual. He’ll just view her silence as her being cranky.
Women are easy to read if you pay attention. Start paying attention. On a good day, where all seems perfect, note how a woman’s demeanor is all throughout the day. She’ll be relaxed, conversant, open and happy and her eyes will be bright. Women’s eyes speak volumes, by the way. Take note on how relaxed her body and facial expressions are and use this as a kind of ‘feeling barometer’. If you meet your lady for lunch and she looks down, take note of this and ask her if she wants to talk about it. She may or may not want to talk right away but she will be so happy that you cared enough to notice that she’s not in a happy go lucky mood. To really drive it home that have noticed, do care and are concerned that she is feeling down, you could buy her some chocolates or a blank card where you write how much she means to you. Women just want their feelings to be validated. They want to know that their guy sees these things and acknowledges them by doing the little things for her. Just putting your arm around her shoulder is appreciated. These little things go a long way with women and building trust. One thing to note is that when a woman chooses to open up and needs to vent her anger about something, ask her right away if she wants your input or if she just wants a sounding board. She may want your advice or she may just need to have a ‘me’ time and let it all out. At any rate, she will appreciate you asking and will see you as highly intuitive to her emotional needs. One final thought on this one: indulge your woman with a platonic hug once in a while. It shows her that you’re not just in it for the sex but that you actually care about her as a person. Women know that for a lot of men, platonic hugs don’t come easy and this will endear you to her even more than any words can say.
Doing these things is a good start to get you on the road to meeting all of your woman’s emotional needs. Once you get the hang of paying close attention to women and what they aren’t saying verbally, the more times you will be able to intuit what a woman wants to say, take action and bring you emotionally closer together. Yes, sometimes women do want us to read their minds like their lady friends can. With practice and knowing what to look for, we finally can.
It’s kind of a weird dichotomy of feelings that you have when you are in the friend zone with a woman you actually want to be more than friends with. That’s because it can feel really comfortable to get to spend time with her, to get to share secrets with her, and to feel like she really cares about you and likes you. It can also feel really uncomfortable when you are forced to face the fact that you like her as more than just a friend, but she probably doesn’t feel the same way about you. That weird dichotomy seems to be what keeps guys locked in the friend zone for a long time, but there does come a time when what you ouugh to do is just be real with yourself and admit that either you are going to be more than her friend or you are going to have to forget about that every being a reality.
SOME OF THE BEST ADVICE I EVER RECEIVED –
I knew a guy who was really good with women and he told me something that kind of changed my entire approach and it has stuck with me and proved to be very useful over the years. What he said was – Great women are everywhere and if you can’t date the one that you want, there is always another who will come along and make you forget about that woman. It might sound cold to say something like that, but there is a lot of truth in it. There ARE great women all around you. There are women who are beautiful, women who are intelligent all around you all of the time. So, if you are stuck on one woman that you are in the friend zone with, keep that in mind. A lot of guys will stay in the friend zone because they don’t realize that as great as the woman they like might be, there are plenty more that are just as great out there.
SOME THINGS NEVER CHANGE –
Another reality that you have to deal with is the fact that some things will just never change. I’ve actually known guys who were in the friend zone with a woman for 5 years or more. All that time they spent pining away for that one woman that they couldn’t have, they could have spent some of that time finding someone that they could be with. You don’t want to wake up one day and realize that you have wasted years and years with a woman you are never going to date. That’s really when you need to be real with yourself and admit that it will probably never happen and that it is time to move on.
They say marriage is the happiest part of one’s life. This is because when people get married, they get to share their love with their partner. The thing is, marriage don’t always end up in a very happy ending. There are times when couples separate because of individual differences or plainly because the other spouse cheated. To those who are victims of infidelity, here are some of the things that women have to do if they wish to learn how to deal with a cheating husband:
- The moment you were able to find out about infidelity, you need to be able to take few deep breaths. You have to do this because you cannot let your anger consume you. If you are angry, it simply means that you would not be able to find out about what happened. It is important that you take deep breaths because you need to clear your thoughts so you would know what the next step should be.
- You may also wish to confront your husband and ask him why it happened. You have to be ready with his answers, which is why you have to ask yourself if you are ready to hear what his explanation would be. If there is something that you did which made your husband cheat on you, be sure to work on it if you feel like giving your husband another chance. This is to avoid him from doing the same mistake.
- You have to make sure that you have your own support team. Support teams are necessary because you need to have people that you could talk with. This is going to keep you sane and avoid you from being consumed with what happened. Talk to you parents, kids, friends and even colleagues so the pain would not be that hard to handle.
- Finally, it might be best if you start re-evaluating yourself. If you think that you might have contributed to your husband’s infidelity, then be sure to fix your problems so you would not have a cheating husband. Try asking yourself if there is something that is missing in your marriage especially if you would want to give your husband another chance
These are some tips that you could take in case you would want to know how you can handle your cheating husband. Check out the tips and be sure to learn from it before it’s too late.
How to surprise your girlfriend or wife? How to make her heart melt? Although these questions may seem easy, it is often hard to come up with something fresh and original. Yet, to keep the magic in your relationship alive, it is important to introduce unexpected elements in your relationship every now and then, especially when you have been together with your girlfriend or wife for a longer time. This article describes several kinds of surprises that you might want to consider before surprising your woman.
Compliments – On Valentine´s day, with Christmas, or on birthdays, most couples put a lot of effort to surprise their spouse. Many men take their girlfriend out of dinner, cook dinner for their wife, buy a nice present, or explicitly tell their lover they love her. Yet, the other 362 days of the year, they tend to forget this. Especially when people have been in a relationship for a while, they tend to forget to show appreciation of each other. Yet, a key to a healthy relationship is to reassure your girlfriend or wife that you still care about her. An easy way to do that is giving her compliments. Giving a compliment is an effective way to make your partner feel appreciated and special. You could for example tell your wife how special she is for you, and in what way. If you find it hard to say ‘I love you’ or “You are special for me’ in a face-to-face conversation, you can also consider sending her a text message, or writing your feelings down for her. A simple text, such as “If you ever ask me how many times you’ve crossed my mind, I would say once. Because you came, and never left”, shows your girlfriend that you think and care about her.
Activities to do together – A key ingredient in the relationship with your girl is to spend time together. In the beginning of a relationship, couples tend to spend a lot of time talking and doing novel activities together. Once love is established, it is easy to fall into a routine. You go to work every day and spend more time with family and friends. As a result, it might be that you can’t find enough time together. To keep your relation healthy, you need to keep doing things together. What matters is not the amount of time spent together, but the quality of that time. That is, if you do things together, you should give her your full attention. Especially novel and exciting activities can improve your relationship. Novel activities are fun to do. Besides, they might put back the spark in your relationship that you used to have in the beginning. Exciting surprises, on the other hand, will always be remembered (maybe even for years!), and may make your overall relationship seem more exciting.
Small present or gift – Although they say that love is not for sale, a small present every now and then will always be appreciated. Make sure you buy a present for her that is thoughtful and meaningful. Especially when a present is not expected, for example on a normal working day, your relationship can benefit from gift-giving. It keeps your relationship less predictable. In the end, it is not about the amount of the present you give, but about showing that you are interested in your girlfriend and that you want her to be happy.
For now, what are you waiting for? Surprise your girlfriend or wife, and make your relationship more unpredictable and passionate!
Couples in the midst of ending their marriage may want to undergo mediation or Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) first before they embark on a full divorce trial, which only creates emotional strain and heighten the conflict between them. As an alternative method to resolve disputes between family members, mediation takes place outside of Court. During property settlement in divorce, the mediation process for a separating couple certainly needs the impartial assistance of a qualified FDR practitioner. The practitioner doesn’t provide legal advice to the couple or tell the couple what to do or which option to choose. Seek legal advice before mediation.
Before Starting a Mediation Process
Before starting mediation, divorcing couples must be very sure that they’re ready to face each other with civility, and talk about property ownership issues without becoming overly emotional. Each participant must be willing to discuss sensitive matters, listen to what the other person has been saying, and negotiate with their ex-spouse as constructively as possible. A dispute resolution process won’t be effective at all when one of the parties refuses to cooperate or compromise, when any of the participants has a history of violence, when a child may suffer from abuse as a result of mediation, and when one of the parties has a mental illness or has been struggling with addiction or alcoholism. Otherwise, divorcing couples who are open to mediation will likely reach a satisfactory agreement over the division and distribution of their assets, investments, liabilities, and real properties.
During a Dispute Resolution on Property Division
The property settlement process consists of three major steps plus a fourth stage where judges and lawyers determine whether a just and equitable settlement has been reached. Yet, these steps take more than time to complete. Each step can be emotionally draining for both parties, especially during the second stage when assessing the value of each spouse’s contributions, which include superannuation schemes and family inheritance. On the third step, each participant makes a list of their future needs after divorce. Afterwards, the FDR practitioner and family lawyer go over the inventories made for assets and liabilities in the property pool, the spousal contributions during the relationship, and each spouse’s probable expenses and personal needs in the future.
Before Signing the Property Agreement
Most likely, couples in conflict over these lists will need several sessions before they could reach an agreement. A meeting may be postponed when both parties reached an impasse. As much as possible, the FDR practitioner makes sure each participant shows emotional readiness for another face-to-face meeting to resolve issues and find solutions. Both spouses must fully disclose all financial information. Otherwise, the property agreement gets cancelled later when the truth surfaces and one of the signed parties failed to report a personal stash of money.
It is time. After all the preparation to find the right date and be the right date, you are ready to go out with who you think is a fantastic woman. You see a lot of good things happening with this woman and you keep thinking in your mind that you don’t want to screw this up. The good news is that you are aware of a right way and a wrong way to approach this date. The bad news is that there are dozens of ways to ensure there is no second date. Here are some of them. I have categorized them for your convenience.
Clothing: Wear clothes that prove your hopelessness. There is a plethora of fashion screw ups to choose from.
- Wearing a wife-beater to the date gives you that special Poor White Trash look
- “Urbanize” your style by dangling your pants below the butt
- Wear more bling than your date
- Rock the sexy dweeb appearance by wearing an outfit purchased in 1983.
Most women have more than an inkling on how to dress. Here are some clues on how to give maximum offense.
- Ask her if she purchased her outfit at Wal-Mart.
- Volunteer the comment that those jeans do make her butt look fat.
- Comment on the relative hotness of her body type (good or bad will do) before the drinks arrive.
- Tell her she rocks the odd look quite nicely.
- Comment that her sun dress looks like the exact pattern from your mom’s living room drapes from 1975.
If it’s the little things that matter most, here’s your chance to really screw up.
- Enter rooms before her and do not hold the door when she attempts to pass through.
- If you drive together, never open the door for her.
- Burp, pass gas, wipe your nose with your sleeve, and if you really want to up the ante, pick your nose.
- Stare at her breasts the entire evening.
Knowing exactly the right thing to say
- “I’ve never dated a fat woman before”
- It must be great for you: your breasts are so small you don’t even need to wear a bra! Your chest is like a little boy’s.”
- Tell her how lucky she is to be dating a guy so far out of her league.
- “Would you like to meet my drug dealer after dinner?”
- “Why don’t we skip the “get to know you part” and go straight to my place?”
- “Can I borrow forty bucks? I blew my cash last night at the strip club. A hundred would be better.”
- “Is this a good time to tell you I forgot my wallet?” (and be completely serious)
Be a complete wuss
- Ask over and over again if everything is okay.
- Be extremely indecisive about ordering drinks and food, even where to sit, walk or stand. Ask permission to use the restroom.
- Agree with every single thing she says and apologize profusely for your stupidity should she disagrees with you.
- Bring an expensive gift for her to the first date – and flowers.
- Don’t ask her for a second date; beg her to go out with you again.
Display really bad body language
- Talk really fast.
- Slump your shoulders.
- Never look her in the eye.
- Sit in a catatonically rigid position and keep your arms crossed all the time.
- Act bored and disinterested in the things she has to say.
- Smell bad and have really bad halitosis.
- Get drunk
- Be late without a phone or text alert
- Text other women or browse thru online profiles while chatting with your date
- Gawk at every decent looking woman that walks by and make disparaging comments about all the others.
- Secretly follow her home after the date. Bonus! This act could also get you arrested and labeled as a stalker on your dating site’s forums.
Just in case you are wondering, this is not a comprehensive list. But these behaviors will guarantee almost 100% of the time that you will not secure a second date. Reading between the lines, however, will help you figure out a better plan so she will be delighted to go out with you again.
How to get back at your ex boyfriend? He hurt you when he broke up with you and you think this is just wrong! You know you didn’t deserve this and you’re itching to get back at him.
It’s nice to daydream about putting bleach in his boxers or ruining his car, but that could turn ugly. If you really want to know how to get back at your ex boyfriend, then the right kind of revenge is to move on with your life.
Look the part
A good way to get back at him is to make it look like you’re not really affected by the breakup. Give him the impression that you agree with the breakup and it’s the right decision. Tell him that he’s right, it’s time for the two of you to have your own space and build your own life. That will get him thinking because he was expecting tears and probably a shouting match from you.
If you look the part of someone who’s in control then you’re showing your ex that you’re not just someone he can throw away. You’re strong and independent and you don’t need him to make you happy. In fact, he’s the lucky one to have you in his life! He’s not expecting this from you so he might even be unsure how to proceed.
Look your best
Just because he broke up with you doesn’t mean you have to look like your puppy just died. You shouldn’t let yourself go and not care about how you look. If he sees that you’re a mess then he’s going to think he won this round because you’re obviously miserable without him. And the last thing you want is to boost his ego even more.
No, you can’t let that happen. You need to look your best so he won’t know just how hurt you are. Go to the salon, get your hair fixed, your nails done, and go shopping because let’s face it, shopping for new clothes and shoes can be therapeutic. You know what they say. If you look good you feel good and if you feel good you’re going to look confident. If you’re confident then you’re showing him that you can be happy and be fine without him.
Stop calling him and sending him messages
Should you call your ex and beg him to come back? I think you know the answer for that. If you want to get back at him then you’re going to have to ignore him for a while. You’re upset and you miss him but you’re not the one who walked away, he did.
Love your enemy… er… ex!
People say that you should love your enemy and to get revenge you should kill them with kindness. In a sense, that’s true. Not that your ex is really your enemy but you get the drift. Just because he hurt you doesn’t mean you should hurt him. One of you has to be mature and it’s better if it’s you.
When it comes to how to get back at your boyfriend, remember that you can’t let him know how affected you are by the breakup. Just play it cool and be nice to him.
I want to help because I was just like you not too long ago.
Dating Agencies certainly are a single person’s best friend. If you’re single and looking to get a matchmaking service to support you in finding a potential partner, there’s really no better way than through the use of one or more of these services.
If you’re wondering, there isn’t any distinction between a “dating agency” along with a “dating service”; they are the same thing. The term “agency” is perhaps used more infrequently through the person with average skills, but it is a standard term adopted from the online relationship services industry because the other term is viewed to think professionalism, trust , experienced representation.
Whether your preference is to locate dating agency in the real world or use one of many dating agencies available online, you must first decide what it’s just that you desire their dating intend to do for you. Obviously you would like a date, but precisely what are your requirements?
Some services are experts in finding dates for business people. Others specialize in matching people of your specific ethnicity, whilst some dating agencies will still only take care of high-class wealthy customers. Naturally, additionally, there are general dating agencies; those who cater to broad needs and that will assist you determine what exactly you would like. It is advisable that you might try to define your dating goals towards the better of what you can do in advance. Selecting the right dating agency to match your needs through the outset will greatly transform your likelihood of an optimistic experience.
In case you are new to the industry you could feel somewhat embarrassed through the use of this type of service, however, you needn’t be. Whilst it may well be a new comer to you, the availability of your dating service is what these dating agencies do professionally. Further, single women and men who will be registered just like you – seeking dates. Once you’re taking the initial step toward while using the help of dating agencies to locate a date you’ll wonder why you ever hesitated.
Naturally, few people will speak positively of the experiences with these businesses. Just just like the act of dating, don’t assume all of these companies will fit you, just like any business, not all business/customer relationships go well. You should approach the task of choosing from the pool of possible dating agencies just as that you would approach picking out a potential date through the pool of individual profiles. Find out, don’t rush in, attempt to understand others experiences, and try to get a feel for how professional their services are as quickly as possible.
Many individuals elect to register in order to evaluate them all prior to buying one which fits them. In the internet this is made quite simple as most offer free trials. Some people also prefer online dating agencies because they can avoid in person meetings. The internet offers anonymity until such time while you finally opt to get together to get a date and this also adds a component of comfort for the whole process. Others prefer one on one meetings since it gives them a feeling of confidence with who they may be handing their private details to.
Fortunately, because of the popularity of internet matchmaking the market is becoming quite competitive. Many offer great deals to entice members. Millions of people take advantage of these offers every year, at any given time for the day most internet dating agencies can have hundreds or a large number of singles online, waiting to fulfill you.
You might eventually thank that company for letting you find your true love.
So you lost the love of your life and you are heartbroken? Been there. So has just about everyone else out there over the age of 16 or 17, so don’t feel alone. The difference between me (and potentially you) and most of those other folks is that most of them did one of two things wrong. Either they gave up and didn’t even try, even though they knew their lives would be much happier with their ex back in it; or they went about trying to get their ex back using all the wrong methods.
I, on the other hand, did the right things to get her back as well as avoided the stupid mistakes that lots of people make. That’s why we got back together and are still together today.
Here are the top three things you need to do starting today if you want to win your ex back.
1. Stop spilling your guts on Facebook, Twitter, or any other social site! Nothing will make you look more pathetic. Even more, doing this will make your ex less motivated and feel less of a sense of urgency to make things work because they will know you aren’t moving on anytime soon. Don’t think that veiling the meaning behind your post using song lyrics, movie quotes, or other vague references will fool them either. Both women and men alike are attracted to confidence above everything else, and there is nothing confident about crying in public. Keep your Facebook and Twitter posts about sports or the weather.
2. No “what are you up to?” texts — especially on Friday and Saturday night? If you send these pathetic texts, you might as well send “please tell me you aren’t out with (or worse, sleeping with) someone else!” instead, because that’s what they are going to read. A better idea is to cut off contact completely on the weekends and let them wonder what you are doing!
3. Give them some time to cool off — then call. Notice I said call. Not text, Facebook, or Twitter. Do your own thing and let him or her do the same for about a week, that way you can both clear your heads, then pick up the phone. If they are receptive, have an honest conversation about how you feel and ask them their feelings. Most importantly, LISTEN. Don’t beg, plead, and spill your guts. Chances are, what comes out of their mouth will give you an indication as to what your next move should be.
If you are in a seemingly hopeless situation and just want the love of your life BACK in your life, you are not alone. My soul mate left me in 2007 and said she was moving on for good. I used this exact step-by-step system to win her back:
We will be celebrating our third wedding anniversary this year. This program is 100% guaranteed to have you back with your ex fast!